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WHAT IS HAPPINESS IN MARRIAGE
FOR A WOMAN?

Is it to have a lovely home?  Happy and healthy children?  A successful husband?  Time for talents?  No money problems?  Husband and wife having fun together?  Is it the feeling of being a successful homemaker?  Is it to be admired by her associates.

All of these things are important and some essential, but one need is fundamental.  She must feel loved and cherished by her husband. Without his love her life is an empty shell.

Why is it that one woman is happy, honored and loved, and another – no less attractive, no less essentially admirable, and no less loveable – is neglected, unhappy and disappointed?  Fascinating Womanhood explains why and offers every woman an opportunity to learn the art of winning her man's complete love and adoration.

FASCINATING WOMANHOOD

A book Of inspirational feminine secrets that can save your marriage and enrich your life..

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married, additional things must be considered – happy and healthy children, a successful husband who provides economic security, your personal success in creating a happy home, organizing your life so you have time for talents and other interests.  Fundamental however, is your husband's love.  If he doesn't love you, your life will be an empty shell.

The answer

The first step to a happy marriage is to understand that all life is governed by law – nature, music, art and all of the sciences. These laws are immutable.  To live in harmony with them produces health, beauty, and the abundant life.  To violate them brings ugliness and destruction.  Just as unwavering are the laws of human relationships.  These laws are in operation even though you may not understand them.  You may be happy in marriage because you obey them, or you may be unhappy because you violate them, without an awareness of the laws in operation.

Through ignorance of the laws of marriage relationships, much unnecessary unhappiness results. We find one woman happy, honored and loved, and another – no less attractive, no less admirable, no less loveable – neglected, unhappy and disappointed.  Why?  This book explains why, for it teaches the laws she must obey if she is to be loved, honored, and adored.

Fascinating Womanhood

Fascinating Womanhood will teach you how to be happy in marriage.  There are three essentials in reaching the goal:

1. Love   Since the cornerstone of a happy marriage is love, you will learn how to awaken your husband's love.  These teachings apply no matter what your age or situation.  Love is not limited to the young or the beautiful, but to those who have qualities which awaken it.

If your husband doesn't love you, you are likely doing something to cool his affections, or have lost something which awakens his love.  You may have begun marriage lovingly but romance is fading – Why?  Could it be that you have changed?  Take a good look.  In most cases a man stops loving a woman after marriage because she stops doing the things which arouse his feelings. When you regain your charming ways love can be rekindled.

In winning your husband’s love it isn’t necessary for him to know or do anything about it.  That isn't to say that he doesn't make mistakes or need to improve, but when you ...(continued below on page 9)

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correct your mistakes you bring about a loving response in him. Frequently his response is so remarkable it exceeds your highest expectations.

The art of awakening a man’s love is not a difficult accomplishment for women because it is based on our natural instincts. However in our highly civilized life many of our natural instincts have become rusty due to lack of use.  You need only to awaken the traits which belong to you by nature.

2. Self-Dignity  Essential to happiness in marriage is self-dignity. Does your husband ever speak to you harshly, criticize you unduly, treat you unfairly, neglect you, impose on you, or in any way mistreat you?  The important thing is not what he does but how you react.  Do you shrink back as if struck by a lash?  Do you go into your shell?  Do you pay him back with a cutting remark?  Or do you fly off the handle with an ugly temper? If you react in any of these ways you will cause yourself unnecessary grief and lessen your husband's love for you.

No man likes an ugly temper, nor does he want a woman he can walk on, crush, or one who will retreat into her shell and feel sorry for herself. He wants a woman with some spunk, some hidden fire, a woman he can't push around.  Some men even admire little spitfires, women who are adorably independent and saucy whom they can't put down with even the most degrading remark.

In Fascinating Womanhood the method of handling wounded feelings is called childlike anger, spunk, or sauciness.  It will teach you how to handle a man's rough nature without pain, without friction.  You can, in a flash, turn a crisis into a humorous situation, so that the man may have the sudden impulse to laugh.  Instead of hurting marriage, childlike anger can increase love and tenderness.

3. Desires    If you are to be happy in marriage your desires must be considered.  I am referring to things you want to have, places you want to go, something you want to do, or something you want done for you.  This is not to suggest selfish whims, but worthy desires.  Unfortunately, you may have gone without these things for years because you didn't know how to motivate your husband to do these things for you.

As a consequence, his feelings for you have likely diminished. We love whom we serve.  If your husband never does anything for you beyond the call of duty he may lose his love for you.  In Fascinating Womanhood you will learn how to obtain the things you need and deserve without causing a marital stir.  Your husband will want to do things for you and will love you more because of it.

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What this book can do for you

      It will teach you:

1.  The Ideal Woman, from a man's point of view.

2.  What men find fascinating in women.

3.  How to awaken a man's deepest feelings of love and tenderness.

4.  How to understand men, their needs, temperament, and characteristics.

5.  How to treat a man when he is depressed in order to build his confidence and respect in himself.

6.  How to cause a man to protect you, provide for you, and devote himself to you.

7.  How to obtain those things in life which mean so much, things you are justified in having.

8.  How to bring out the best in your husband without push or persuasion.

9.  The feminine role and the happiness which comes with Its fulfilment.

10.  The masculine role, and the respect due this divine calling.

11.  How to react when a man is thoughtless, unfair, or negligent.

12.  How to be attractive, even adorable, when you are angry.

13.  How to keep a line of communication open in marriage so that a good feeling always exists.

14.  How to gain true happiness in marriage, while placing your husband's happiness as a primary goal.

Please note:  Many success stories appear throughout this book.  All are true and came to the author’s attention by letter or direct conversation with the party involved. Likewise, all illustrations and examples are taken from true experiences, except those from classical literature.